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Originally Posted by Bugsy5680
I had a lawyer consult and was advised to file for divorce.
Some advice ive recieved was to move out behind his back. Others advised to tell him as soon as possible and have a friend there with you. Ive started using the gray rock method to see if he will want to live apart. Idk what to do.
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If you decide to move out, you should probably first consult the lawyer on whether there would be any legal ramifications to sneaking out with the kids.
As a general precaution, you should also start recording conversations that revolve around the divorce in case he starts making threats. That way, if you do need to make a quick escape, you'll have proof as to why you felt it was necessary for your safety, because he'll try to deny it. Also, you could nail him in custody court.