I guess this could also include any Utah residents who are not members and who may....uhm...."identify" with some of my issues?

Maybe it was just my parents or my neighborhood, but I just always felt a lot of pressure to be the perfect little wife and mother. You know, marry young, punch out a dozen kids, stay home / don't work, and be happy thru all of it. Oh and don't forget bringing casseroles and jello to all the church functions. I just never lived up to any of the expectations placed on me, and it still bothers me now...even though I really don't believe in the church anymore. It's hard to explain.

I don't mean to offend anyone...I know it's not like this everywhere. Just how I was raised.