HI @Emily Fox Seaton. Thanks, but I am well aware of how corrupt this world is. I am not naive. Your post is almost offensive. I am 48 years old and I have been working for 25 years full time. I am fully aware. I am simply exasperated by all of it. Plain and simple. And people have varying views on HR and on going to HR. I have found in my experience that it CAN benefit a person sometimes. And it has in the past for me. So I disagree with you on that as well.