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Old Jul 19, 2019, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted by yellow_fleurs View Post
WC I am so sorry. Are you able to keep a safe distance from him yet? Do you have enough support right now, like could you use more frequent therapy sessions or something? Take good care of yourself if you can! Give yourself all the compassion and pampering you can.
Hi!

Thanks for your concern.

I have not seen HIM since I've told him to leave, approx 6 weeks ago now.
I had told him to leave, based upon some "accidental" findings.

I have talked with him a couple of times. It does not go well, because he keeps lying to me. I catch him in blatant lies and he becomes even more angry.

We have texted a little. It is usually very short and to the point.

It is all very strange. He is VERY angry with ME!!!
It's just unbelievable. He must be mad at me for "finding out" and for making him leave?

After he had left, there were more and more findings.
It was like a constant flow of findings, each one quite a surprise.
I had reached a point where I had thought it would be "quiet," and... suddenly, there was more! I could not believe it! And so, the very last, to date, was yesterday. It popped up, right in my face.

I see my pdoc, who is also my tdoc, once a week. She is on vacation right now. I can reach her if there is an emergency.

The "nature" of some of is "activities" are a HUGE trigger for me. This is why the dissociation, I believe.

Thanks, again for your support and your concern!
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