Okay so you might know me - I’m an older guy with a sparse relationship history. So that said I was at my favorite bakery today, talking to my favorite female baker (she owns the store), and she mentioned that she’d like to put some hanging plants outside her bakery. Now I have bought her flowers before but not anything expensive. So I said I’ll get you a hanging plant to put outside your store - she didn’t say anything and just smiled. Well I took this as an invitation to go pick her up a hanging plant or two. When I brought them back she was surprised but I think a little guilty because she wanted to know how much I spent. So the question is did I overstep a boundary - I really didn’t want to make her feel obligated. It just felt nice to do something for her. I was going to run this by my therapist but she’s out of town ☹️ I feel so clueless - thanks 🙏