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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
You described a lot of what my t does and it is gaslighting.
My t is more concerned about how she feels and the effect I have in her, she said I push her away but I go quiet because I feel ashamed because she told me I try to appease her. So I lowered my head and said nothing and then she said I was punishing her
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ummm...yeah, this isn't cool and with a response like that, she is clearly making it all about her and her needs. it also feels manipulative. definilty get out of this unhelpful relationship ASAP