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Old Jul 19, 2019, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver View Post
You described a lot of what my t does and it is gaslighting.
My t is more concerned about how she feels and the effect I have in her, she said I push her away but I go quiet because I feel ashamed because she told me I try to appease her. So I lowered my head and said nothing and then she said I was punishing her
ummm...yeah, this isn't cool and with a response like that, she is clearly making it all about her and her needs. it also feels manipulative. definilty get out of this unhelpful relationship ASAP
Thanks for this!
SalingerEsme, weaverbeaver