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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
Mine was to get to a place where my history wasn't running my present.
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Yes he has said that in therapy. Not having my past rule every decision in the present. So I do things or not do thing based on fears from the past that do not actually live now in the present and I do not even realize I do it.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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