So what do I do? just accept it and stop cancelling our plans or end things and find people who actually want to hang out and keep in touch and not lie about wanting to stay in touch? I would still like my money but this woman makes me feel alone and if I end things I wont ever see my money. Obviously I would not tell her any of this, I am not an honest person around her. It would be more like "Good luck and I hope for nothing but great things for you in your life. Goodbye". Or just the classic "ghosting".