the thing i feel is that i read someone's post and think to myself "everything youre describing is your own fault." but no one will come out and say it. everyone gives them internet hugs when all they need is a kick in the ***. in that case i usually PM them and give them my opinion since they asked for it. people dont like hearing that things theyre *****ing about are their own fault though.

its like the people who say "well im 10 minutes late everyday but i didnt think that was a problem. then my boss yelled at me!" like it was some kind of insult. you were late to work! of course you got yelled at!

i think that sometimes the best way to support someone is to show them what they can do to improve their own situation. so i tell people when theyre the ones causing their own problems. maybe thats why people hate me so much lol