I have been with my husband for 10 years. And he started a new job a year ago. He always talked about this female and how depressed she is and how her life is. Well 2 months later , he invited her to our house and also offered to do her oil change. We got into a big fight and i asked him " what is going on between you two. He said" im giving her hugs and telling her shes pretty and boosting her self esteem. He would text her and she would reply. She would send him pics, nothing explicit. And so 9 months later. I come and visit him and there cars are parked beside each other everytime i come and visit. Yesterday i came and visited him and we were talking and all he did was just stare at her. He didnt even want to give me a kiss in front of her. And so i asked a question if she was still in a relationship and he said" no" and he brought up the fact that his owner was more concerned about her and i laughed and said" you are always concerned about her and kept his mouth shut. Am i overthinking this situation or he really wants to be with her.