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Old Jul 21, 2019, 09:27 AM
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It has sounded to me that each place you have been involved with in that company you noticed how things were not being run right and found yourself expected to suddenly take over when you were not prepared to do that. My understanding of what you have shared is that you had been put in the position of having to own up to shody work with a client when you had nothing to do with whatever was done inadequately for that client. I got the impression that you were exited to move to the Social in that company but you were not expecting to begin working in that area to find out it was being badly run and you suddenly being expected to fix it and act like you had been part of whatever was not being run right. I think you had been expecting to experience a presence that was already running that area well and that you were going to be able to learn and work in that area that was being run right instead.

I think that you want to be respected and appreciated for what you produce and you tend to keep running into relationships where you don't get the respect, appreciation, and support that you desire. You tend to end up being expected to be the "caregiver" too where you are expected to take care of whatever while the other individual can slack off thinking you will just give into them.

What does "I like you" mean when someone says that to you?