wow. thats pretty horrible. you finally take a chance and make yourself vulnerable and thats what happens. and he wonders why youre depressed? a lot of people have that view of the world. its the same people who see a homeless guy and say 'go out and get a job!'. im sorry you went through that and im sorry youre feeling suicidal

i have only said something like that once. in middle school my friend "tried to kill herself" which meant barely skin deep cuts on her wrist. but it was all for attention. because when a kid made fun of her the next day she just yelled "hey! I tried to kill myself last night so stop!" and it obviously wasn't real, it was just to be able to say that she did it. thats the only time i have told someone to get over themselves when they threatened something like that.