My daughter's father promised her he would see her every week over the summer and have sleep overs Friday - Mondays most weeks etc.
We've just finished an unpleasant court case all to do with maintenance. Ruling was made in my favour for him to backdate a lot of missed payments and a decision has been made for all future payments.
Since the court date he has been vile.
He's said to our daughter who is 10 that he will only see her once a week for the summer now and will only have a sleep over twice a month.
He has told her that I will not let him see her more than that. This is untrue and I try as hard as I can to make sure she's free when he wants to see her and have never stopped him.
The court order wasn't a childcare arrangement so he doesn't have to adhere to anything contact wise. It was just for maintenance money.
What do I say to him.. if anything?
And more importantly, what do I say to her?!
I've never said a bad word to her about him bit have no idea how to handle this. She is now angry at me for not letting her see her dad
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