I agree with the other wise, wonderful posters that it seems like he's having an emotional affair, @Crysr521! Definitely try to talk things over with him. You deserve to be respected. Make him understand who much ALL of this is hurting you and your relationship with him. Make him understand that this is important and ABSOLUTELY not fair towards you. I hope he'll come to his senses and do the right thing. Keep us updated if you want to and let us know how things turn out for BOTH of you. Wish you the BEST of luck with whathever will happen! I hope things tunr out ok for you and your marriage. Feel free to PM me anytime if you're looking for advice and support and I'll try to get back at you as soon as I possibly can! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your family, Crysr521! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!