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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
If I wanted children and my partner didn’t - that would be a clear deal breaker for me. I’d end the relationship. No judgement please. But I wouldn’t bring a child into the world where only one person was keen.
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I agree. It sounds like the OP and his wife should have discussed the kids issue more seriously before marriage. I have ended a relationship because he wanted kids and I didn't and my husband and I made sure we were on the same page regarding the issue soon after we started dating. It definitely is a huge dealbreaker.
I guess for now you need to keep the lines of communication as open as possible with your wife and see how things evolve. But you may need to consider separating if you ultimately want different things.