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Old Jul 23, 2019, 06:37 AM
Anonymous48672
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Originally Posted by SorryShaped View Post
My questions are:
1) is it worth it?
2) am I worthy?
3) what is so wrong with me?
4) should I simply resign to being alone, as far as all relationships go?
5) what am I doing so wrong?
6) can I learn to trust again?
1. No, it's not worth it. That's me projecting but I'm sort of joking too. It's only worth it, if it's something you need or want in your life.

2. That's up to you. Are your standards low or high for yourself with female friendships? Do you have platonic female friendships or FWB type friendships? What is your norm? What type of women do you befriend? Do you befriend them to rescue them, if you are a caretaker? Or, do you befriend women who are self-confident who don't need rescuing? What is your role with your female friendships?

3. Well, that depends on you. What do you think is wrong with you? What type of friendship did you have with this woman? Strictly platonic or did it blur the lines of FWB?

4. If you want to be alone then yes, resign yourself to no more relationships with women. But if you enjoy women's company, set higher standards for yourself and for the types of relationships you have. Weed out the relationships with women who don't meet your set standards.

5. That question can only be answered by you. It takes some self reflection.

6. Well, what type of friendship did you have with this woman a year ago? Was it a well-defined friendship or were the lines blurred about its intention and function in your life in any way, by either her or you?