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Originally Posted by Sisabel
@ StreetcarBlanche
You are so right about the “optionizer.” I think it’s becoming quite common actually. I see people all the time making multiple plans and deciding at the last minute which ones they are actually going to do. It’s very rude. |
Yep. I CANT STAND option-izers! It's totally common and it's socially acceptable to make multiple plans for the weekend, then either no-show or cancel last minute on people which you are correct -- is SO RUDE.
The problem with these types of people is that they literally do not care about other people's feelings. If you point out how rude their behavior is to them, they deflect it back on to you, as though you're the one with the problem. I don't like to be friends with optionizers.
Unfortunately, they're rampant these days and they use social media and their cellphones to perpetuate their rude behavior.