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Originally Posted by mugwort2
I play it by ear My usual pattern is to tolerate the bothersome behavior because I feel guilty complaining. Then when I can't stand it anymore I usually yell at them very angrily . Yes I realize its a terrible way to handle the situation. I'd like to work with my therapist on a much fairer solution for whoever I'm dealing with and me.
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I am the same way. I worry that I will bother people by complaining. Which I have done but in other ways. Also I have tolerated someone’s crap for long periods of time too before saying something, although I didn’t yell at them though.