I can relate, @aimlesshiker! Perhaps this is going to sound stupud, but perhaps you can just TELL him that you have some problems with this? Just telling him "I have some problems with anxiety and self-love so that's why I may seem weird sometimes" may work if he truly loves you. He should just accept you for who you are. Of course it's important to work on yourself as well. It is important to understand that you are WORTHY of Love just like everyone else. I'd suggest to work with a therapist to explore this if you aren't already! Keep reminding yourself that you matter and that you deserve to be Loved and respected. Don't settle for anything LESS than that! I hope things will keep going well between you two! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH of you, aimlesshiker! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!