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Default Jul 25, 2019 at 05:21 AM
 
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The pro for me was preventing my former t from sexually abusing other vulnerable clients

Another pro was standing up for myself in the face of ongoing abuse. Knowing my worth. Feeling justifiably angry

Being validated in that the board deemed my therapy abusive and revoked his license to practice permanently.

Being financially compensated which provided the funds I needed for subsequent treatment that lasted almost 5 years .


The cons were being investigated very thoroughly...in interviews as well as them taking my computer hard drive. Also the fear of possible litigation and having to testify in court

Another con was the intense confusion and contradictory emotions following my report

The biggest con was never getting closure, never knowing the truth, the why

His wife divorcing him and taking their small children

The fact that he is still living life and seems happy ... while I am the one suffering and sorting the immense damage he caused me.

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