I agree. She would miss her child which would eventally damage the relationship.

I am glad the visit worked out. When I came to PC in 2016, I was just emerging from serious depression and posted in the depression forum (Mysterious ). I remember how lonely and depressed you were. I have to give her credit for bringing you out of much of it. It's good to see you happy so whether it works out as you hope or not--I think this experience has been good for you.