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Old Jul 26, 2019, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Omers, could it maybe help if you *do* call 911 whenever you feel at risk? That way you'd have a paper trail and could possibly use it in the future as evidence that he can't stay with you. I'm not sure how all these things work. It just seems like there has to be someplace that could take him, even if it's, say, in the next state or something. If you're on Facebook, I imagine there's a (nonpublic) group or two for parents in your situation. I know I've gotten quite a bit of support and suggestions (even just reading other people's posts) in groups for parents of kids on the spectrum. You wouldn't have to use your real name on Facebook if you were concerned about privacy and didn't have an account already.
after two incidents last night I did call back. The same officer responded. I was told that he was behaving in a threatening and disturbing manner but did not actually harm me so their hands were tied. I asked why I didn’t have the right to be safe and short story was that it is his home too as it is his legal mailing address. Even when he started up and I cowered in the bushes the officer said his affect was calm so he was not a threat I explained to the officer that
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the officer reiterated that he was calm.

The officer told me there would be different people in after 9am if I wanted to try again?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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