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Old Jul 26, 2019, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by LonelyMan View Post
i am ranting really. he has many good qualities. i would like it to stop. he asked to go for coffee today but i said no. i am exhausted i have an illness which causes great fatigue. too tired to listen to that. He is not a bad person though

I would be somewhat curious too. i saw something called responsibility ocd but is more about not wanting to hurt others
Everyone has good qualities. But yeah, seems like the best thing for you to do is simply take a break from him for a while.

I don't think it's OCD. Highly conscientious people might overstep a lot of boundaries because they're trying to be helpful, but they would feel deeply guilty about it once someone pointed it out, and then they would agonize over it and overstep a lot of boundaries while trying to make amends for their overstepping of boundaries. Your guy didn't seem guilty in the slightest.