Wanna hear something crazy Elmo? When I was pregnant the first time, DH was reluctant to have sex from the day he found out!!! I didn't discover until after our son was born WHY.

He genuinely felt that having sex with me, or doing anything that involved sexual play would be somehow "wrong" or "offensive" to our child, and he took it further. . .thought perhaps it was morally wrong too.

Talk to your DH about this. . .I'm guessing due to some of the issues orgasm can be complicated for you, but there are other aspects of play that might alleviate the pressure on him and you!

Good luck sweetie.