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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
My T also did this once. Could it be he dreads conflict with you/disappointing , and unconsciously put off telling you?
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Well then that would be counter-transference and he need to work on that if that is the case.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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