It was a lot of things. I am in pain. I had no sleep the night before and was very tired.

I had a sort of conversation i said it is the girl's choice to do the work and it is his own job description to do his job as hired not to be part of a management committee.i am going to be more forceful in future

No still not sleep so i did not go out with him for coffee yeterday or today. I am too tired for it

Thanks for your interest