Thank you for your great insight. I will most definitely take your advice. When, or if she asks I will tell her what ever she wishes to know, and I won't push anything on her. I don't wish to cause her any problems, and I realize I am not her parent, she has her parents, and they have done a wonderful job raising her. If she allows me to be her friend I will be very happy. I have always Loved her, and it almost destroyed me to give her up, and has been a hole in my heart where she would have been for more than the 30 years. If it is ok, I am going to also send you a friend request, also bc you are on the other side of this, and may be able to give me a better out look of a adoptee's point of view. Thank you again.