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Old Jul 28, 2019, 01:46 AM
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I am going to steal @Theorectical way of answering your questions.
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Originally Posted by Sisabel View Post
Do you think it’s rude not to respond to a text message? I have noticed that some people are a bit demanding and expect me to respond to their texts yet they don’t respond very often to mine.
I think it's rude if you do not respond at all. Everyone has time for "I am in the middle of something I'll get back to you". But I do not think its rude to not want to go back and forth on text.

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Do you think it’s rude if people text you but rarely or never have time for a phone conversation with you?

Absolutely. I do not text with people I wouldn't talk to unless its an rsvp(to my daughter's sweet 16) or a business or person asks for a quick text question.
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Do you think it’s rude if people want to talk by text but never invite you to do anything while they have groups of friends they often get together with?
I think its rude to keep in contact with any friend and not invite them out for get togethers. I do not think this is limited to text messaging.
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Maybe my idea of manners and etiquette are old fashioned. I don’t want to have “conversations” by text and if people don’t want to spend time with me I have started to ignore their texts. I feel rude when I blow off texts though...
I do not think you are old fashioned. Its not like you are not functional with a phone. Its because you want to convey your thoughts like a human, you know, with your actual voice. Especially if something major is going on. I had a random fight with my brother last week. I casually mentioned something and he blind-sided blasted me on text. I told him I wouldnt go back and forth and we should talk in person. So last thursday I went and met him at my mothers.
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