I’m very selective on who I respond to right away be it text or call. Anyway my Husband or Daughter try me I immediately respond or answer the call.

Friends ? It just really depends on what I’m doing and how I’m feeling mentally and physically. I try not to leave people hanging but sometimes it will take me a day or 5 to respond, sometimes I start to reply to a text and my pot is boiling over on the stove, and I forget to go back to it and hit send , any hundreds of reasons can be the reason I don’t reply.

Same as on here.... (I doubt I’m alone in this ) sometimes I don’t want to respond to a PM or answer a question someone left for me on a check in thread... I just want to lurk and there’s nothing wrong with it.

I can be randomly scrolling on Facebook for 3 hours and get 10 texts and not open a single one all the way.

I’m not selfish even tho some might think so , I just have to be very proactive with my self care. Tomorrow I might text 1 person or 20 ..