My honest friend (whom has been a life long and love dearly) told me that I need to start wearing my size and stop letting my size wear me. She told me my clothes are frumpy and says it makes me look bigger. I understand what she’s trying to tell me. But what if I don’t want to own my size? Not everyone can walk around confident. She’s a naturally beautiful woman-thick curly black hair and despite not being thin-all her weight is distributed evenly. So she looks good. We all aren’t that lucky to be able to comfortably sport skinny jeans despite being over weight. Yes, most of my clothes are hideous and I dress very plain but I don’t know how to wear my size like she does. My body is different than hers.