Unfortunately I'm in DC so we can't meet up. Have you tried meetup.com? You can make meetups for whatever you want. A CEN meetup would be great, if people are willing to come forward at least.

I agree with Eskielover, as far as dating people who grew up in a healthy environment because it will help you heal. As far as talking to/confiding in friends who grew up in healthy, normal environments and can't relate, I disagree. Don't do it. Many times, they lack compassion and just can't relate and it ends up creating a rift in the relationship. You're viewed as exhausting, someone who always has issues, and often times they can't handle that. It's better to befriend support groups/people that experienced CEN as you're trying to do. Or, a therapist if you can afford one.