Yes, I'm at a place of wondering what the difference is between healing and detachment. Then I go back to some of my original goals - are they still issues? If yes, then I'm not done.

One of my biggest goals is to be able to make and keep friendships. One thing I feel that prevents me from being able to keep friendships is my inability to tell people when something bothers me. Last time I did this with T, I still went to the place of emotional distraught for simply stating my feelings. Not as significant as before still more than what the situation really called for.

I know you initially went to deal with issues around your son. Then things started to become very focused on your relationship with your T. Can you see how these things might link? Do you feel like you've gotten what you needed to address the issues with your son? Do you see things playing out with your T that play out in other relationships?

And yeah, talking to your T about it is the right way to go about it.