thanks kathy. Believe it or not, she has a teacher aide with her ALL the time. Things 3 weeks ago were ok, and from feb til then she had no aide during breaks and lunch time. Then the behaviour got worse and worse and the support was put back in...My head is spinning. We had so much support at the school. This is her 4th year there. The principal was a HUGE support to me. I kinda feel like I am all alone now (altho in reality I'm not)...