So I read this article;
Love is Not Enough for a Healthy Marriage
I thought I was a really good partner, but after reading this I知 really not that great. Sure I love her and she loves me. But is that enough? We are going through a rough patch on the wanting kids now vs later discussion. But despise having our differences in that I thought it was mostly her that was the issue. I now know I知 still very closed off and have issue communicating my feelings. If I was more open and would not bottle up my opinions. I would致e avoided 90% of the issue in my marriage.
I thought she was the toxic one because she came from a very hectic family. But now I知 starting to realize what I bring to the table. FML