I understand what you mean, @jaymoq! Personally I DO believe Communication is still possible between you two. I'd say that the problem is whether you BOTH TRULY want to reach out to a compromise. It is possible but the fact that he NEVER wants to talk things over makes things rather complicated. How can you talk about compromise if you don't, well talk first? I feel like that's something important to address! I'm REALLY HAPPY that you're turning to a Couple Counsellor to solve these issues! Hopefully that will help A LOT. I'm so sorry I don't have anything insightful to add I do believe it can be worked on so please NEVER give up hope. I'm also a little bit worried from the fact that he'd spend hours without talking to you. I can understand wanting your own space but isn't that a little bit too much? That's just my opinion though. I hope you'll BOTH be able to work on this as Communication is FUNDAMENTAL IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP! Keep us posted and let us know how things are going for you BOTH. Feel free to PM me ANYTIME when you need Advice and Support. Sending many AWESOME, caring, kind, safe, sweet, warm and WONDERFUL HUGS TO BOTH YOU AND HIM, JAYMOG, MY DEAR, SWEET FRIEND! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!