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Originally Posted by Lemoncake
It's up to him to take care of himself. If it's what you need right now- I'm glad he can provide that extra support for you.
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Thanks, Lemon.
I guess I recognize that it’s his job to take care of himself... but I’m afraid that he’ll do an incomplete job of that, that he’ll allow himself to begin to resent me and that I’ll end up paying for his inability to control his emotions. (This happened with my dad a lot growing up... my therapist is not the only one with some transference going on...)