I’ll just be blunt ... STOP expecting them to get it or even slightly understand it. It’s a waste of time and will only make things harder for you

Depend on your Pdoc T and here or other bipolar friends you have made elsewhere.

There is no reason to just keep banging your head into a wall.

As for your husband not understanding your taking meds, just take them when he’s not looking , although your married your still able to make medical decisions for yourself. You know what you need to do to try and find stability.

Yes it all sucks but you have no choice but to deal with your proper self care