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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
It's entirely possible that he's away someplace where he doesn't have cell (out of the country) or WiFi access, so he hasn't seen your email. My T also allows email contact while he's away, and he told me that on that trip, he didn't know if he'd have WiFi. This tiny part of me wondered if he wasn't being honest, but then the Monday he got there, he emailed me to let me know he did in fact have WiFi. I really hope your T isn't lying to you.
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I think he is testing me. Testing to see if I resort to past behaviors or go into some crisis or if I can stay in adult self. It sucks. Feeling like this sucks.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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