I'm so sorry this happened. I know it can be difficult to drive when one is dissociated. I try to take a few moments in my car to ground myself after therapy to make sure I'm okay. T is pretty good too about asking me what I can do to stop dissociating. This could cause a bit of a rupture between you and T but I think its normal to be upset after an accident regardless who is at fault. Hopefully T will calm down and realize their reaction is theirs to own and not push it off onto you. I hope your insurance can sort it out and that everything will be okay. HUGS Kit