Jul 31, 2019 at 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by feileacan
Have you confronted him about those things? Have you asked him why did he previously behave differently than now? What has changed?
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He is not back from vacation. I see him again August 5th. I did say that I felt like I was being punished from two weeks ago with that email I sent him about the Bulimia. He did say he switched gears and is pushing more as he feels I am ready to do more because I did not come in after that email in a total crisis and I was in my adult self. He swears he is not punishing me and that is the reason.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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