@Jedi67 has some EXCELLENT Advice for you, @pacman_789! As for Confessing, it's hard but I feel like that may be the best thing to do. She's aware of the fact that you have Bipolar, right? That should clarify thing and perhaps you can even bring her to one fo your Doctor's appointments if she isn't convinced. Having a professional there with her would help clarify thing to her, reassure her, make her feel like she's not alone and provide a better understanding of what her Role is in ALL of this. Bipolar is hard and unfortunately can affect our Loved Ones as well But it's not your fault of course! Please just keep working on it, do what you can, reassure your wife that things are going to be Ok and that you still Love her pretty much. I'm so sorry I can't do more to help you! Feel free to PM me anytime when you need help! Others will gladly help you as well! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you AND your Wife, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WONDERFULLY DOING!