Just when I think I'm understanding what you are saying, I give it back to you and somehow I miss the mark. LOL I still think I understand, though. It's just like the "balance" thing... oh well. I don't mind stretching some, do you? That doesn't mean like in "stretching the truth." It's more like reaching for something that's beyond us for the time being.

<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>