Well. Pacman, in my case, I had my wife come with my to see my T and my PDoc so she can understand and witness first hand the things I go through when manic and hypersexual. Unfortunately, it all came to a head and I was eventually caught engaging in these behaviors, but my wife knew I was sick and was very understanding. It out a huge strain on our marriage and she was very hurt. She came to my appointments with me and got a better grasp of my mental health illness, especially the mania and the lack of inhibitions that come along with it.

I had a bad porn addiction at one point and she approached me about it. we once again went to therapy and discussed other options to engaging in that online behavior. maybe being as honest as you can may surprise you. she may just need to hear the truth from you and it will set you free. I know it sounds cliche but wives appreciate it when husbands come forth about weaknesses that they have. she may be very understanding about it all especially if she know about your diagnosis. There is nothing wrong with having accountability. perhaps that is what she needs to see and hear from you at this point.

hope some of this helps! wishing you the all best! sending best wishes and keep us posted. keep reaching out here!