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I involuntarily became single in my 40s when my husband was killed in an accident. Can't tell you the number of people who've pushed me to be in a relationship. I tried being polite and telling I wasn't ready. When that didn't work I tried humor and said I was my parents daughter for we years, then married for 23 years, was going to try single for 23 years. That didn't work either. Now I just say I'm not interested. If that doesn't work I tell 'em i don't need a man to complete my life.
Dazed, it's your life. Live it the way you chose to. There are always going to be people who think they are a better judge of how someone else ought to live their life. Ignore them.
I read you post several times. I'm wondering how much pressure you are placing on yourself to meet TV "society's" expectations. Again, live your live as suits you, not what you think other people want.
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