I am very sorry for your struggles.

Sadly your marriage is over and I’d take focus off finding closure and focus on financial situation. I’d see a lawyer. You might be entitled to spousal support, you should get some money out of the house if you put any in and you should have part or a half of whatever you two had like savings or pensions or investments.

It sounds as you were left destitute by your husband. You sure need to see a lawyer snd your husband might have to pay your legal fee. This should be your focus.

Why is your daughter not speaking to you?