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Old Aug 02, 2019, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Betty_Banana View Post
Seeing a Male T was very healing for me.It helped me see that not all males are abusive and untrustworthy. And that it was possible to love and be loved without anything sexual being involved.

I would like to eventually see a female T and stick it out though.I still have deep issues being able to trust females.Although most of my abuse was by males not being believed or protected by my mom and being punished for what was happening TO me(even when she saw it with her own 2 eyes) has left more damage than the abuse itself.I would be helped I believe, if I could learn to trust a female T,feel validated and believed.I have never been able to bear therapy with one long enough to have any benefit though.


I have never been hypnotized either and would never go for it anyway.I have read it's too easy to implant false memories.

Do T's even use hypnosis anymore?I assumed that was a thing of the past.That question is fir anyone I guess,not specifically you.
here in NY state Hypnosis is a specialty treatment where a person has to go to a "Hypnotist" and insurance plans do not cover it. its an out of pocket expense here. most people that go to a "Hypnotist" that I know have done so for things like quitting smoking or other bad habits. but they treat many different things, mostly anxiety problems, most good places here in my city require a treatment providers referral (paperwork, prescription the works) that's how I saw one after a work related trauma.

Mental health treatment providers in my city do a variation of it called meditation which anyone can do by their self or with their treatment providers.

the Hypnotist that I saw was male but I requested a female to be there with me. all went as planned and my anxiety over the work related trauma was decreased enough so that my regular therapist and I could work on the trauma issues.
Thanks for this!
Betty_Banana