Hello Mommathemaniac: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. Since you're now a mom to 3 children, one additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the Healthy Parenting forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/healthy-parenting/

You may also want to take a look at the relationships forum:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

And then here are links to 8 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of BPD including a link to a BPD-related blog:

Borderline Personality Disorder: Symptoms & Treatments

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder

6 Gifts of Borderline Personality Disorder

https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhaust...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/disorders/b...eatment/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/lib/couples...lity-disorder/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/dialect...isorder/?all=1

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.