My T and I have talked about this in the past. He’s always been hell bent on any time off work we truly just used for making trips to Florida. In April we went to Savannah for 4 days. And about 11 years ago we took a 4 day trip to Chattanooga. Those are the only 2 trips we have ever gone together that weren’t just to Florida and seeing all the grown kids.

I don’t think he has some self awareness that he will die soon. His life has just changed, he’s not invincible anymore.

But he’s always been hell bent on making these trips to Florida. Don’t get me wrong I love and really miss my daughter I’m just more realistic.

We lived in Florida for 8 months and his 3 boys just never made much of an effort to spend time with him. We felt like we were intruding just wanting to see his granddaughter 4-5 times a month.

I just wish things will settle down. He’s had 3 lung infection this year already.