and she's at it again. I didn't answer the phone when she called. She and her boyfriend wanted to come over and drop something off and I didn't feel like company. I'm still trying to sort out why my mother acted out of spite and intentionally hurt me. They came by my house anyway, and saw my car here. I didn't answer the door and by that time was a little pissed off that they would come over without talking to me. I waited about 40 minutes after they left and called them and left a message on their answering machine. This was Wed, July 31st. I haven't written the letter yet, wanted to wait and let emotions settle down. Not sure when my emotions will settle down. I cry every time I think about it.