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Originally Posted by winter4me
What do you mean by "loyal"? Why would you need to be #1?
At the risk of pissing you off, you sound judgmental and impatient with others. Maybe if you can step back a bit and watch situations with some interest and empathy...?
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You didn't risk it, you did it.
It is stating the truth about others. Not my fault if they are legitimately this way.
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You shared that you don't really stop and chit chat with people that travel either.
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No I didn't. I swear to god this is how my day goes..
Co worker: Blah blah blah blah blah about me,
Me: Yeh I know what you mean I did....
Co worker: Gotta go!! Work work work.
They literally have been known to hang up on me.
It is possible that people get used to my being available for them to spew too and since I don't have a ton going on that is considered major -- like oh this weekend I went to Paris, as opposed to, this weekend I finished cleaning my car... they don't want to hear anything that isn't "major".
I have seen Sabrina, that could be at play in the condo situation. People let me go and I outshine them and then they don't want to be held to the standard I hold myself to. They would rather be friends with someone who won't be expecting a lot of them.